Sep 20

Written by: Mike Martinez
9/20/2009 8:00 AM

WHY DOESN'T HE CALL?: I overheard some girls discussing the other day some date one of them went on and how he hadn't called since.

They wondered why some guys don't call after what seemed like a great date. Sometimes even after they tell you they had a nice time. Why don't you ever hear from them ever again, they wanted to know. It would be nice to know why, they all agreed.

Now they didn't ask for my opinion, as I was more eavesdropping than anything else, but if they had here's what I would've said: "Isn't not calling the same as calling?"

In other words, he didn't call again so isn't the message the same as if he DID call to say it wasn't going to work out, have a nice life?

And the reason most guys don't call is because you ladies won't just leave it at that. You want details. For instance, if a guy called you a day or two later and said thanks but no thanks he just ain't feeling you, you wouldn't just say, "OK, that's cool. Sorry you feel that way. Bye". Nope. You'd likely have a list of questions. And NO guy wants to spend time answering questions from a girl he likes, much less one he's not into.

And that's why some guys would rather you just got the hint.

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