Jul 31

Written by: triciaonkiss
7/31/2009 8:15 AM

This morning we were talking about why guys seem to bail just when things are getting good between us.  So Jake, the guy who tells all secrets Guy over at Glamour, came up with this list to help you understand why guys are so damned stupid!

The Timing Is Off

Women get serious when they meet the right man. Men get serious with whomever we happen to be dating when we're finally ready to settle down. That means you even if everything is great between you, until his life if in order, you won't be the One.

2. We're Not Finished Playing the Field

If there's a possibility of upgrading what we already have for something better (that'll make our friends drool), we say, bring it on! So we wind up always wondering if you're really as good as it gets. Scumbag mentality, but the truth, nonetheless.

3. We're Fixated on the Worst-Case Scenario

Yell at them for leaving a wet towel on the bed to those nights you rip through a pint of fudge ripple without stopping to breathe, those things freak a guy out, and even if you don't do that, they can't help picturing it. Juvenile, right? Thses are guys we're talking about here.

4.We're in Like, Not in Love

It's harsh but true. In fact, it's probably the most common reason we bolt. Just because a guy likes you a lot isn't a guarantee that it will evolve into love. And there's no magic pill that will change that.

5. We're Too into You

Just when you thought it was all bad news, here's a hard-to-fess-up admission: Guys are protective of their emotions. Translation: We're scared to death of being hurt. So, if we start to feel like we're getting into a situation where we'll be destroyed if you dump us, we might launch a preemptive strike and yank the plug first.

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